Discover the world on your own terms
I recently read about the difference between solitude and loneliness. Loneliness is isolation (even when people are present) and solitude, is the choice to be alone and to use that time either for reflection or to simply enjoy one’s own company. Some people travel alone because they choose to, and some because they don’t have someone else to join them, and that’s okay! Either way, it is a perfectly great option to have an amazing experience whilst traveling and to enjoy the solitude.
Traveling is a journey, not just across physical landscapes but through personal growth and discovery. I have traveled around 21 countries alone and each time, met someone new and learned a new life lesson or skill. If I hadn’t traveled alone, I would not have learned how to speak a second language, scuba dive, navigate foreign subways (and streets), and would not have one of my closest friends, all of which I gained while solo traveling.
While the thought of setting off alone can be daunting, going solo offers a unique and enriching experience. Here are some reasons why you should consider traveling alone:
- Freedom and Flexibility
When traveling alone, you create your own itinerary and plans. Don’t feel like doing much one day, and just want to hang out by some water and relax? No problem. Are you looking to see one of the main attractions in town? Go check it out on your own or join a group tour to do it with others. You can do what you want without having to compromise or consider anyone else’s preferences. This flexibility allows for a more relaxed and personalized travel experience, where you call the shots.
Additionally, you get complete control over your budget and can manage your expenses without paying for something someone else wants to do. You can splurge on the activities that matter to you and save on others. This helps you stay within your budget while getting the most out of your experience.
- Self-Discovery and Personal Growth
Traveling is a great way to learn about yourself, and even more so when doing it alone. Facing the challenges and successes of learning how to navigate new places and situations on your own builds confidence and self-reliance. Because I often travel alone, I am more confident navigating new cities and streets, dealing with stressful situations, and quickly problem-solving when needed.
I am also more self-reliant and okay doing things solo. I used to be scared of doing anything alone. When I had free time, I would quickly find someone to spend it with. I didn’t want to feel lonely and left out of something. Plus, as an extrovert, I get energy from spending time with other people. But in the last couple of years, I have learned to love spending time with myself. I enjoy the space to reflect and relax. Afterward, I feel refreshed and appreciate the people in my life, and ready to be present with them. When traveling alone, I leave the experience learning more about myself and growing more than I would in any other situation.
- Meeting New People
This is one of my favorite parts! I have met the most interesting people staying in new places alone, and some of my closest friends I met while traveling! When solo traveling, you already put yourself out there, so you are more likely to leave your comfort zone. This makes you more approachable, and you can enjoy interactions with locals and fellow travelers. Often, I stay at hostels or in communal spaces where there are others like me in the same situation, so it is easier to connect. I use conversation starters like, “Where are you from,” and “Where are you traveling to next?” to bridge the gap and find commonalities.
Once, I was traveling in Thailand alone on my birthday. I felt lonely since I would not be with family and friends to celebrate. While sitting in the hostel lobby, I overheard a staff member say he was excited to celebrate his birthday that night. I excitedly approached him and shared that it was also my birthday, and we realized we were turning the same age! Later, he surprised me with a cake for both of us, and we celebrated in the hostel together. These connections can lead to memorable experiences and lasting friendships, enriching travels in ways you might not expect.
- Immersion in the place
When traveling alone, you can fully immerse yourself in your surroundings. You have fewer distractions from others and can be more observant and present to what is around you. Because of this, I usually notice more cultural nuances and lean into the different experiences. You also become more approachable, so locals may invite you in to share with them. The heightened awareness you get while traveling alone can lead to a deeper appreciation for the culture, history, and beauty of the places you visit.
- Building Resilience and Problem-Solving Skills
Traveling alone inevitably involves encountering unexpected situations. Whether it’s buying a new SIM card, trying to find local transportation, or a language barrier, these challenges in a foreign place force you to think on your feet and adapt quickly. These problem-solving skills you develop can benefit you for life. Additionally, it reinforces your independence and encourages you to navigate the world on your own.
Traveling alone has always been more than just an opportunity to explore new places; it’s a journey into self-discovery and my personal growth. It allows me to explore the world on my terms, meet new people, and build resilience. While it may seem intimidating at first, the rewards are immense and an experience worth doing at least once in your lifetime. Pack your bags, trust in your ability, and set off on an adventure that’s all about you!
Let me know if you are interested in traveling alone, but not sure where to start, and look out for my next post and tutorial on how to travel alone, coming soon! <3